By Maureen Bonatch
I’m not much for New Year’s resolutions. Sure, I’ve made
them, but all too often they’re the same resolutions and feel more like a ‘to
do’ list, or even a ‘things I feel guilty about not doing last year list’. So
much that I could label it as things I should’ve done last year—eat healthier,
exercise more, spend more time writing etc. etc. Or I should say, ditto from
last year.
I’ve tried making detailed lists of steps to reach these goals
at the start of the New Year, but instead of motivating me to do more, it
simply gave me more to feel guilty about a few months into the year when I
realize how far I’d fallen behind. Besides, I’ve come to accept that the motivation
and desire to make a change is more important—and effective— than the month of
the year.
Paper Calendar of Dreams
The first thing that comes to my mind when I think of a new
year isn’t always resolutions—it’s getting out my new calendar. Sure, I have an
online google calendar, and it’s awesome—but it isn’t enough. There’s something
about a paper calendar.
When I get my new monthly desk calendar out, the crisp blank
pages are waiting for me to make them my own, just like the new year. Each new month just waiting to be filled with all the hopes, dreams and goals for the new year.
Life Happens Between the Wrinkled Pages
Life is busy. So much that sometimes the days, months and
years seem to blur together. I’ll wonder if something happened this year— or maybe
it was the year before. When I pull out the calendar for the year that’s ending,
I go through it month by month to write down those special days that reoccur
every year such as birthdays and anniversaries. Adding stickers or highlighting
so I don’t forget, and to remind me what I have to look forward to when I flip
to that new month.
Usually this mundane task inadvertently results in my reflecting
on the past year. Recalling the challenges, the joys, and the memories that were made. It allows me to appreciate just how much happened, in addition, or instead of, those recurring resolutions.
Because often the
best things in life are all those little things that happen while we’re
focusing on what we think are the big things.
How Do You Reflect on the Passing Year?
Author Bio: Maureen Bonatch grew up in
small town Pennsylvania and her love of the four seasons—hockey, biking, sweat
pants and hibernation—keeps her there. While immersed in writing or reading
paranormal romance and fantasy, she survives on caffeine, wine, music, and
laughter. A feisty Shih Tzu keeps her in line. Find Maureen on her website, Facebook & Twitter
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