My girls don’t want to grow up. They sometimes act as if
they must squeeze all the fun, leisurely things in life into the last few years
before they graduate from high school.
I often contemplate their unusual desire,
since I thought I’d been eager to grow up at that age, but then I realize, a
lot of the time “Adulting” just
stinks.
Things Adults Miss
The things we wanted to get grow out of all those years are
what we now strive to recapture:
- We never wanted to go to bed- adults kill for nap time
- We couldn’t wait to see the world- most adults favorite thing is staying home
- Kids complain when they have nothing to do- adults rejoice when they have nothing to do
Halloween Lets You Be a Kid Again
But there is one magical time of the year in which we can
all be a kid again—or whatever we want and that time is now, Halloween.
Halloween gives us the opportunity to become the character of our choosing, if only for a
day.
Although part of me realizes I write
paranormal/fantasy—and often about witches—is the ability to rebel against the adult responsibilities and vicariously create a life free from the boundaries adulthood
brings all year long.
A little magic can go a long way.
The witches in my stories are just normal people with a
little more.
- Lucy, from Witch You Were Here: Well, Lucy’s just a little more…everything.
- Hope, from Destiny Calling: Emotions
- Sabrina, from Forget Me Not: Visions
- Carman, from Grandma Must Die: Unpredictable, Powerful
- Celeste, from That Magic Moment: Healing
Yet in all my years of celebrating Halloween, I don’t remember ever dressing up as a witch. (Here’s a pic of one of my costumes from a
post of Halloween past.)
According to the National Retail Federation’s 2016 Halloween Consumer TopCostumes Survey a witch costume the #1 costume for 35+ year olds.
Costumes for 35+
year-olds:.
1 – Witch
13.7%
2 – Pirate
4.7%
3 – Political
4.1%
4 – Vampire
3.9%
5 – Batman
character
3.5%
6 – Animal
3.2%
7 – DC Superhero or Star Wars 3.1%
8 – Ghost and
Zombie
2.5%
9 – Scary
Costume/Mask 2.2%
10
– Marvel
Superhero
2.0%
Yet, despite my girl's resistance of approaching anything resembling adulthood, this
year they hesitated when I asked what they were going to dress up as this
year.
They’re starting to worry they’re too old to dress up.
Too old for Halloween?! Never.
I hope
they’ll change their mind, because who doesn’t love the magic of being whoever,
or whatever you want for at least one day?
So maybe this year will be my witch costume year?
How about you,
what’s your favorite Halloween costume?
About Maureen
Maureen writes stories in the beautiful state of Pennsylvania that boast laughter, light suspense and something magical in the hope of sharing her love of finding the extraordinary in the ordinary world. She writes Paranormal Romance and Fantasy.
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17 comments:
Great post....The only costume I have is Alice in Wonderland, but love it.
Oh I bet that is an adorable costume, Sophia! I'd often love to escape down the rabbit hole ;) Thanks for stopping by!
Great post. In my opinion Halloween is the best holiday of the year.
Thank you GE- I agree! No presents to buy, no cooking to do- just candy to eat and you get to play dress up :)
Yes, Halloween is the best! I love the valid excuse to dress up and pretend to be a creature of the night, no judgment. :)
Thanks for stopping by CJ :)
Oh, yes! Every Halloween a neighbor hosts an awesome party. Some folks don't dress up, but I ALWAYS do! I have posed as a Geisha Girl (speaking "Japanese" and serving saki), as a 60's flower girl complete with long wig hair and tie-dye clothes and a witch--even without a mask people did not know who I was! I LOVE this kind of fun! No need to ever outgrow Halloween!
Wow Susan- even though I don't care for saki- I'd love to stop by and see your Geisha Girl- how fun!
Love the info! I haven't done Halloween in years...might have to.
Good luck and God's blessings
PamT
Thanks Pam. I'm glad I got you thinking about Halloween! :)
I love to dress up in costumes. This year I'm going to be a 1950's bobby socker.
What a fun costume Kayden!
I used old bathroom curtains--black with fuzzy trim (a weird decorator)--to make a witch costume for my daughter one Halloween. Turned out really cute.
Love your comparison of what kids & adults want. Great.
That's why Halloween is my favorite holiday! The kid inside comes alive. And then there's the candy corn . . .
Diane- what a great idea for a witch dress- how cute! Nancy- don't forget the candy pumpkins- it's like a shot of sugar- but delicious! Thanks for stopping by ladies!
Great blog! You are so right about teenagers. I think it's this is a universal thing. We all felt the same way about growing up. I love my naps
Thanks for visiting Victoria!
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