Showing posts with label traditions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label traditions. Show all posts

Sunday, October 22, 2023

October One of My Favorite Months by Tena Stetler

 October has finally arrived and marks one of my favorite months of the year! Boasting vibrant hues of

red, orange and gold, chilly mornings and evenings, yet sun-warmed afternoons. I call 'em cozy weather conditions, and best of all the promise of Halloween. Celebrated annually on October 31st, Halloween brings with it superstitions that come alive on this bewitching festival and brings people of all ages into costume wearing and carving pumpkins jack-o'-lanterns to join trick-or-treating activities - adults typically host themed parties while kids have lots of spooky fun collecting as much candy as they can!

October means there is pumpkin spice everything and everywhere.Yum! A first for me was the car wash that I use, Quick Quack, offered pumpkin spice scented car wash. I kid you not. Yep, my red Durrango smelled like pumpkin spice for a whole week.

Each autumn brings with it its own magic as nature transforms before our eyes while folklore whispers its ancient tales around us. As summer winds down and autumn breezes kick in, October offers us all of its delights - from Halloween fun to quirky decorations to cozy drinks - giving October its special magic.

It also marks the beginning of holiday season - from Halloween at its end to Christmas in December where there's an enthusiastic carnival-like atmosphere all throughout.

Halloween would not be Halloween without a vampire tale. Bwwwwahhh... My award-winning novel, A Vamipire's Unlikely Alliance, is not what you’ve come to expect from a Vampire Tale! Join Stefan and Brandy for an exciting romantic fantasy where Irish legends and magic may save the day. But will it be too late?  Find out, grab a copy to day!  Universal Buy Link!

A wee bit more about A Vampire's Unlikely Alliance - Stefan is a Native American vampire and, former assassin for the Vampire Council. In a twist of fate, he now DJ’s the midnight shift for a small radio station in Whitefish, Montana, on the edge of Glacier National Park where his secret is safe until...

Born in Ireland, Brandy now works as a park ranger and trail guide in the park. During a full moon, Stefan and Brandy’s paths cross in a near physical collision on a trail. Their attraction is immediate and undeniable, almost as if fate demanded it.

Their union was foretold long ago in Irish folk tales where vampires and gryphons, warlocks and demons, witches and faeries must work together for the good of man and magic kind. Is a trip to Ireland the key to unravelling secrets and returning the magic?

Happy Halloween!  See you in November a month we count our blessings.

Saturday, December 4, 2021

Let Them Eat Cookies!

By Maureen Bonatch 


December 4th is National Cookie Day. While growing up in western Pennsylvania the best thing about a wedding was a cookie table. 


Family members would begin baking (or buying) cookies to freeze in advance because you have to have enough cookies for the guests, and many guests plan to take some home with them.


Some receptions...


even supplied baggies on the table as they knew the guests would be absconding with the cookies. 


Granted, at that time a wedding reception was often held in a firehall or other reception area. It was the perfect environment for kids to run amuk once indulging in way too many cookies and other sugary confections.


When I got married I gave instructions to ensure that I got a few of my favorite confections, because even the bride could be deprived if the cookies were that good. 


Over the years...


those types of weddings seem to come around few and far between. Many request that it be an adults only reception, or choose to have their wedding at an exotic location.


Therefore, when an opportunity presented itself to take my twin daughters to an old-fashioned wedding reception when they were two-years old, my sleep-deprived brain this was a good idea—even though my husband was unable to attend. It would be fine!


Sure they were amazed by the gowns in the church, but by the time we got to the reception their limited attention span had run out. Once they spotted the glorious cookie table it was impossible to resist. Little fingers wanted to touch all those delicious confections!


In reflection, it has helped me understand why many receptions may have moved to adult only or exotic islands.


I also realized later in life...


everybody wasn’t familiar with the cookie table tradition (that and the bridal dance where you pay to dance with the bride for a piece of cake, or a shot of alcohol). 


Well, whether you grew up with the cookie-table wedding tradition or not, most people love to bake cookies over the holidays. I know that it’s a tradition with my daughters every year.




And it’s just your luck, today is national cookie day! Who knew we needed an excuse to eat cookies? 


Ready to Start Baking?


My publisher, The Wild Rose Press, has a free 2021 Christmas Cookie Cookbook. Grab a free PDF copy here! My recipe for Peanut Butter Yummies is on page 23.



Want Some More Goodies? Check out these free Cozy Mysteries right HERE.



How About Checking Off Your List With Some Cozy Mystery & Romance Books? Check them out Right Here.



Looking for a story to get you into the holiday spirit? Pick up Magic, Mimosas & Mistletoe RIGHT HERE.




What's Your Favorite Cookie?


Just a small-town girl, Maureen Bonatch leads a double life. She lives in a magical world as a novelist, and as a nurse leader in reality. Maureen’s first novella was a paranormal romance published when blogs were a new-fangled thing. She’s since changed her focus to writing paranormal cozy mysteries as M.L. Bonatch and urban fantasy as Maureen Bonatch. 

While she’s not busy writing or doing nurse-things, she’s a mom to her twin daughters, bicycling in the beautiful woods of PA with her hubby, doing the bidding of a feisty Shih Tzu, and dancing as much as possible. She believes music can be paired with every mood, laughter is contagious, and that caffeine and wine are essential for survival.

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Friday, December 13, 2019

Traditions by Diane Burton


My favorite aspect of this time of year is watching our grandkids in their pageants and programs. Our oldest granddaughter (12) is a dancer. After a three-year hiatus, her dance studio put on The Nutcracker last weekend. I love seeing her wide smile as she danced in “Chocolate” (the Spanish dance) and in “The Waltz of the Flowers.” Her love of dancing shines through that smile.

The first performance of Tchaikovsky’s ballet in 1892 was not a success. But starting in the 1960’s, it became a Christmas tradition. When our granddaughter was four, she danced as a flower, and I fell in love with the music all over again. But I never knew the story of a nutcracker who came to life and the little girl (Clara) who fell in love with him. (See how I made this post relevant to Paranormal Romantics? 😊)



 My mother-in-law gave me a traditional nutcracker back in the 1980s. The figure started a collection that’s now over a hundred. When I discovered I couldn’t stop family from giving them to me for Christmas and birthdays, I tried to limit them to one per year. Sometimes they listened.
 
a few of my nutcrackers


When we find something someone likes, we tend to go overboard. LOL
 
more nutcrackers
Our grandson (almost 10) is quite a dancer, too. For the Christmas pageant at church last Sunday, he really got into the party dance. The program was a fun interpretation of the Christmas story. I enjoyed seeing how enthusiastic he and the other children were as the shepherds went on trial for disturbing the peace.

Making the old relevant. Turning tradition on its ear. Pushing the envelope.

I’ve never been rule-bound or a tradition activist. Yet at this time of year, I enjoy traditions. I like putting up and decorating a tree. I enjoy listening to holiday music. Just not before Thanksgiving. 😊 I love watching my grandchildren participate in the Christmas story. But I also enjoy seeing different aspects of the holiday. We can get complacent when we see the same program each year. Our minds drift instead of paying attention to the message. I hate to say this, but sometimes I’m so busy watching my grandkids that I’m oblivious to the story itself.

If you enjoy reading holiday stories, Romance Rekindled is a spin-off from my Alex O'Hara mysteries. 


No matter what your beliefs or traditions, I hope you enjoy the holidays. 

P.S. If you’re a regular reader of this blog, you might have noticed I was AWOL on the 1st. My apologies. I got caught up with “life” and missed my posting date.


See you next year.





Sunday, November 13, 2016

Traditions in World Building by Diane Burton


We take for granted holiday traditions in our lives. Thanksgiving, for most of us, means turkey with myriad accompaniments followed by tryptophan coma and football. The accompaniments are dictated by regional preferences and family expectations. At our house, I always made a sage dressing the way my mom did. Despite Hubs’ dislike for sweet potatoes, I made Mom’s version of candied sweet potatoes by drizzling maple syrup over canned yams, dot with butter, and bake. Never mind Aunt Cora and I were the only ones to eat it. LOL Now that my daughter has taken over hosting family Thanksgiving dinner, she combines our food traditions with her husband’s. He cooks the turkey with his family’s stuffing recipe, and she makes Grandma Burton’s cranberry salad. But one thing never changes—both daughter and her husband and Hubs and I celebrate our wedding anniversaries. We followed in my mother and grandmother’s tradition of being married on Thanksgiving Day.

In my science fiction romances, I lightly explore traditions on planets far, far away. On Traish, one of the Central Planets in my Outer Rim series, the inhabitants revere the First Mother. Matriarch’s Day, celebrates First Mother and all mothers. When Traishans, like other explorers from the Central Planets, left their homes for the Outer Rim, they brought religious and secular traditions with them. But with so many differing customs, the Rim became a melting pot (sound familiar?) and an amalgamation of traditions. Even inventing new ones.

World building can be a fun exercise prior to writing a story. Or, as the story develops, the need for certain aspects of culture arises. I don’t plan my stories too far ahead. I’m sort of a combination plotter and pantser, heavy on the latter. When I start a new story, I have the beginning already in my mind. I know the ending (usually) and a couple of key plot points. If I had to plot out the whole story, I’d lose interest, because I’d already “told” the story. Besides, I love seeing how my characters will direct the story.

Because I like writing a series, I need to keep track of all the details, which I do in a separate file entitled “details.” Real original, huh? As I write, it will occur to me to question why the characters do or say certain things. Was that a remnant from the culture of their home planet or one cultivated in the new environment? Then I add that to the details file—so I remember for the next story.

Why go to all this trouble with customs and traditions? Because they make the story richer. Because readers can identify with strangeness if it’s similar enough to their own lives.

What stories have you read that take place in another world and made you think how similar it was to your own life?


Diane Burton writes science fiction romance, romantic suspense, and cozy mysteries. Whether they take place in this world or in space, she combines adventure, romance, and humor in all her stories.