My beloved scrunchie. See how it stands out from the rest? |
We have a lot of stuff. As the official ‘clutter control queen’
(I.e.: the mom), I move stuff to make it look like there’s less stuff, but
later realize I’ve only transplanted stuff until that place gets too much stuff
and it needs moved…or gotten rid of.
The holidays have passed so there’s
more stuff and the need to clean out old stuff to make room for new stuff
festers. Gazing into my bulging closet,
knowing there’s nothing to wear...but nothing that can be parted with. I force myself to begin, some items I’m not
even aware where they came from, while others are near and dear to my heart,
but only taking up space. I painstakingly fill bags to donate while trying not
to pull them back out in angst regarding their imminent departure.
But a week or two after the loss of
the beloved items, the closet looks better and I don’t even realize what’s
missing.
As a writer, I’m often forced to
get rid of ‘stuff’. In other words---or
I should say less words...editing.
As a reader, I appreciate the
concise flow of the sentence, the elimination of the fluff that I skip or lose
interest in if I’m bogged down with unnecessary verbiage.
As a writer, it’s painful.
Books have changed over the years that the flowery prose isn’t acceptable as it had been years before and unfortunately, no one has time for that.
As the words work to meet the pace of the modern day and emphasis on getting rid of deadwood, wordiness, and being simple
and direct.
I realize words I use too much in
my speech have overflowed to my writing…
…actually, sometimes, only, so, or
something, really…
“That’s my stuff,” I’m thinking as
I chip away at each sentence. But after
going back to read through it, after it’s been squeezed until not a word is
left that isn’t essential, I realize I don’t miss what’s been eliminated.
Because they were unnecessary from
the start, I just didn’t see that because like most people, I like to hear
myself talk...or my characters do (they like to talk…not hear me talk J).
I hold onto some things from my
closet because they’re essential. Like
my black Scrunchie. A relic from the 80’s, it’s stretched out
and unattractive, but I can’t bear to part with it. I have a few other
scrunchies, but I’d sacrifice them all to hold onto the black one. Its role is crucial---in holding my hair up
as I schlep around the house. It could
be called a unique character trait of mine.
The scrunchie… and overused words…are
essential in some places. But a little,
goes a long way.
Trying to keep my rambling prose would be like
going out wearing my 1980’s pink stone-washed jeans with the high-waist and the
zippers on the ankles and my black scrunchie in my hair today. My scrunchie has a place where it’s essential,
at home, not anywhere else (or so I’ve been told). Its time has passed, and as much as I’d like
to think it’s still good…It’s not good for anybody.
Back in the day, when pink, side-zippered jeans were cool. |
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5 comments:
You keep your black scrunchie. I'm packing for a move and my sons have become quite critical of what they consider my pack rat attitude. I believe it is because they lack sentiment.
R.E.
Thanks RE! Until every last bit of elastic is out of it, the scrunchie stays :)
Maureen
If you're still using something, keep it! No matter how battered. And when your sons pester you, just tell them you are practicing good ecological practices...reducing and reusing...
I hope your move goes smoothly -
lol, Thanks Ashantay.
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